Tool Box: Review -- VID 12
Heaven Door Review:
Toolbox inspection -- VID 12
Perhaps this video series
on the domestic church seems a bit complicated; just more work during confusing
times, another tedious task. That may be
true if someone thinks it all must be done at once, all up and ready to go
yesterday. Heaven Doors are a place for
prayer. Therefore, prayerful
consideration must accompany this grass roots family faith maturation.
Consider the installation
of a Heaven Door similar to planting a seed, rather than a fully-grown potted
plant. The seed must be buried in the
ground where it invisibly germinates. Then one morning it surprises us as the
first shoot resurrects from an earthen grave.
Gradually, it matures into a
plant and after some time it starts forming a bud. Then the next surprise appears: the first
flower blooms. It all started with a
single seed, which when compared to the flower is infinitely different from the
tiny, pebble or debris-like seed. Laying
a spiritual foundation, which will last, means discerning a concrete place for
entering the household of the Blessed Trinity, encountering the saints of the
ages. Like Rome, it was not built in a
day.
Such growth and
adaptation takes time. Rushing the
process means initial enthusiasm will quickly wither out, like the grass in the
sun recounted by Jesus in the Gospel story of the sower. First, consider place and patron. These considerations may mean a few attempts;
you may have to shift it around a few times before finding the right place. The final goal of place needs to keep in mind
a permanent, prominent, and easily accessible location in the home. This means that when someone has an urgent or
pressing need, the path to the family Heaven Door is not long, obstructed, or
hidden.
This series suggests a
kitchen or dining room corner. Proximity
to table and chairs means you’re ready at any moment for an unexpected guest,
like Jesus knocking at your door (Revelation 3:20). Remember, every family member has to have
easy access to gather spiritual fruits as well as share each other’s
challenging times. There will also be
times when your entire family will gather at this celestial Door.
The Heaven Door also
witnesses to your family’s faith, therefore, its position needs to be prominent
and not hidden from guests and visitors. They too, may be inspired by your
reverence. That’s person-to-person
evangelization. Heartfelt inspiration
begins with the relationship your home nurtures with the family’s patron. Selecting a family patron for your heaven
window may necessitate a few suggestions, considering some options by trial and
error in discovering who fits best. Try
surfing the web, or better yet, ask one of your grandparents, then proceed with
keen eye open at estate/garage sales or flea markets.
Think of what image of a
particular group of human beings (Madonna and Child, Holy Family, Blessed
Trinity, Emmaus Gospel event, etc.) and the life event it depicts. How does it speak to you? Does it encourage you to listen to and converse with the saints, begging for
inspiration, help, and protection for the entire household? This too may take time, a few tries (computer
prints), and some intimate group and personal prayer. Again, this resource prefers an icon depicting
at least two people relating to each other.
Their relationship/s will lift up yours in frustrating and trying
moments. Of late, I am considering two
groups to add to my Heaven Door for protection: the Archangels —Michael
(protection), Gabriel (good news), Rafael (healing), and Ariel (light); or
another (from a photo I took at the home of Elizabeth and Zeccariah) of Mama
Mary spreading her expansive cloak over centuries of her sons and daughters.
As this aspect matures into
more concrete reality, don’t overlook the Second fundamental hinges of Heaven
Door spirituality: Sacred Scriptures and light. A battery operated, self-timing praying candle
reflects a powerful Scripture image I remember from a title of a weekly, late
1950s, religious television series: Your Word is a Lamp Unto My
Feet, a Light Onto My Path
(Psalm:119:105). It proclaims intimacy,
solicitude, care, protection, and spiritual presence.
Once these basic pairs
are in place, place/patron and Bible/light, let time pass and you’ll find the
remaining tools easily. Global testimony
reveals believers of all faiths use concrete tools to connect with the
spiritual life. These are prayer tools, gathered in a Heaven Door Tool
Box. The fundamental Catholic and
relationship-restorative tools: an image of the family Patron, Sacred
Scriptures and a praying Lite, over time may be augmented by other prayer
traditions.
In the home a prayer tool enables, expresses, and strengthens the
divine-human communion as well as its interpersonal aspect, a believing family.
That is why the tool enacts “action prayer” in an analogous way each of the
Seven Sacraments effect a superabundance of sanctifying grace. Water as a sacramental “tool” washes away
sin, consuming consecrated Bread and Wine nourish souls, strengthening the
Communion of believers with Jesus’ Body and Blood, oil exorcises a Baptismal
candidate, only to enlighten that person with gladness (Holy Chrism), strengthening and Confirming them to take on
the mission of Christ. That same fragrant “oil of gladness” anoints the hands
of the priest which bless and offer sacrifice for their people. Yet another oil
calls the healing power of the Holy Spirit onto a sick person. Anointed hands of the priest bless couples in
the bond of Matrimony, as those of Bishops ordain priests who ensure Jesus’
real presence in the world. As each
sacrament has a sacramental tool, family worship has prayer tools.
Prayer Beads: Rosaries or
Chaplets are at the top of Heaven Door tools and may be simply kept in the
Tool Box. At least one visible Rosary (the
Author adds a Divine Mercy Chaplet) is needed at the Heaven Door reminding each
member to daily connect with heaven. This connection is just as essential as charging
up the smart-device. No power means its dead, very similar to loosing heaven
power.
Other personal favorites
will surface at holydays, anniversaries, seasonal transitions, and personal
celebrations. Let this place take on a
custom flavor and develop organically, and over time to express some uniqueness
of the soul of your household. Remember,
coming together gradually will mean the restored human-divine relationship will
last even into the moment your children begin building their own homes.
Don’t rush into a
shopping spree. Gather what you already have at home. However, put things aside only for sacred
use: an old, used tin pie plate or metal tart form for “holy smoke,”
washed mustard or canning jar for holy water with bottle brush sprinkler,
some used/favorite vase, etc. Store
these items in your toolbox. When needed
place them at your Heaven Door.
As time passes, you’ll
start noticing things around which may be more appropriate for your needs or to
your liking. However, before purchasing anything
(except perhaps for the battery-operated praying light), start with what’s
already in your house. Expressive of my
family’s tradition, at least during the 50-days of Easter, I keep a blessed
“written” Easter egg, in addition to blessed palm weavings and pussy willows at
the Heaven Door. In an upcoming Vid
we’ll discuss the possibilities for storing holy cards of personal patrons and
funeral cards of deceased loved ones.
Next Saturday: “Meal
Evangelization”
All video content of St
Casimir’s Series on the Domestic Church and Tandem Blog Articles © CzMKrysa,
Buffalo, NY April-July 2020.
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